The so called Life. Moves on..

Three of my childhood friends got married yesterday. Its a shame that I could attend none. Now, When I get to see the photos of these marriages in fb, my misery state only increases. I tend to ask why I didn't  attend these marriages?

Well, I have never touch on this topic called marriage in any of my blogs. Today after seeing one friend after another getting knocked down, I could not stop myself from writing this one.

I would be lying if I myself don't think about marriage these days. When you married friends ask you every other day when are you getting married, it's inevitable not to think. Good thing is that I say far away from home, so there is no pressure from relatives as some of my friends back at home face.

Today, whenever I visit my married friends house, I call their wives bhabhiji. I find this word 'bhabhi' or 'bajwai'(in my language) very weird. I still feel I am too young to use this word :).  I remember during my school days, I used to wonder if I will be calling any girl of my age 'bhabhi'. Today, I use it very often whenever I visit my married friends house. Of course if their wives turn out to be one of my friends, I would call them by name.

Today I miss my school days a lot. During our school days, the only thought that would brother us would be when would we grow older and go to college. Ok, the pain of studying to pass exams was also there. After we move on to college, the list of things that brother us only got increased. Profs, grades, gfs/bfs issue, placements etc got added up. During college days, we would want to enter the corporate world as soon as possible. After we enter the corporate world, some of us would realize that the world is not the way we envisioned it to be. Having knowledge and good grades is different thing, and having to work in resistant corporate world is totally different game. Not to forget in between you have to manage your life, which include your health, love life if it exists and family.

As we grow older, the list of things that concern us only grows. Then, you will also find people sharing hell of stuffs in fb about how to live life. Some people says that the list only grows once you get older and older.

Perhaps, life changes. Or perhaps, life moves on.