Trial & Error

Let me start this article by disclosing you one thing. I am an output of trial and error. Let me also disclose one more thing. I am not the only one. You too are. Is it too much to digest? Ok. Let's hold on for a moment. 

Few days back, I was talking to one of my colleague in office about a bug in one of our software. He was dam sure that this bug was caused due to this issue. So we tried to fix that issue but the bug was still there.  

The reason I shared this incident is because many of us including me suffer from this disease called 'God Complex'. Now the symptoms of this disease is very simple: No matter how complex the problem, we think that we have the solution. In the above incident, my colleague thought he had the answer. Whereas this bug could have been caused by many other reasons. Instead of debugging through various ways, he insisted on trying this way only. The end result the bug was still there. Ultimately, we had to try on different set of ideas to fix this bug. In short, what we did was actually trial and error. 

God complex can be found every where. We find it among our doctors, engineers, scientist, politicians to name a few. We think that we know the solutions, though actually we know only a part of the solution. It may work. It may not work.

Many times, when we are in relationships, we are so sure that this is the girl/boy that we are going to marry. Now how many of these relationships turn into marriage? Perhaps around 50%, might be even less. Infact much lesser. Relationship is the process of trial and error. I know it does not sound good. Let see what happens in relationships.  Boy likes a girl and the girl likes the boy. They talk and try to know each other. They fight, cry, console and in the process test if they fit each other. If not, they break up and move on to the next relationship. So what are we doing here, trial and error.. trial and error.. trial and error. 

In sports, trial and error is no new concept. The coach thinks of a strategy based on his analysis, the team implements it. Will it work? Sometimes yes, sometimes not. If it works its well and good. If not, he has to find new strategy and try it out again. 

We do trial and error everyday in our lives. Be it the time we go to shop to buy a new pair of shoes or be it the time when we decide to start a new company. It is everywhere. Then, why is trial and error not an obvious thing? Perhaps, I will leave it for you to find out. Let me put forward another question. Suppose we have an electoral candidate who goes around saying this:

“I want to fix the health system. I want to fix our education system. I have no idea how to do it. I have half a dozen ideas. We try them out. They will probably all fail. Then we test some other ideas out. Will find some that work. We get rid of those that don’t“ - Tim Harford on TeD

Are you going to vote this candidate?  If yes, then trail and error is an obvious thing. If no, then you know why God complex exists among us.

"Sometimes a clearly defined error is the only way to discover the truth”

― Benjamin Wiker, The Mystery of the Periodic Table

PS: This article is an outcome of an brilliant lecture by Tim Harford, an English Economist at TeD on God Complex.

Entropy

First of all Happy Diwali to all my dear friends. Let's hope like every year, this Diwali too brings tons of happiness and brightness in our lives.

Now, you must be wondering on what subject I am writing on. Entropy! what the hell. Well, if you happen to read physics or chemistry in your school days, you will know about it. It's nothing but the measure of state of disorder. One must be wondering why on earth I am writing about this topic. After all, today is Diwali, I should be either celebrating Diwali with my friends or family or writing about some other good things in the world.

Well, to be honest there is something about Diwali that triggered me to write this article. Every year, during Diwali time, whenever I login in fb, I find my wall flooded with Diwali wishes like  'Wish all my friends a Happy and Safe Diwali' or 'Let celebrate this Diwali noise free' or 'Diwali is a festival of light not noise' etc etc. In short,people want Diwali to be celebrated noise and pollution free. Still we find people firing more crackers than lighting diyas. Every year we find pollution level going high on Diwali. Though we keep on saying that Diwali is a festival of light, we keep on doing the same every year.

The irony is that, though we hate disorders in our lives, somehow we tend to go/move towards it. Its like though we know that smoking kills, people still enjoy smoking. We know that speed can kill us, still we fantasize driving fast. We human being somehow enjoy the state of disorderness or in technical term high level of entropy. For instance, you can't expect children to sit down in one place and play. They will obviously move around here and there and enjoy among themselves. Or most bachelors would love to keep their room unclean or play music in volumes louder than our ears can bear. In simple words, entropy is all within us. No matter how much we want to avoid it, we only move closer to it.

I won't say having high entropy/disorder is always a bad state to be in. Sometimes being in a state of disorder is good too. Putting our-self out of comfort zone can expose us to what we are actually missing in our life. Take the case of our career itself, we might be in a good job that pays us good salary but still deep inside we might not feel  good. We feel we are missing something. So some of us who's entropy level is high would leave their job and go out to fill their voidness and there by giving birth to companies like Microsoft, Apple, Google etc or atleast failing while giving a try. While some high entropy people would leave their comfort life and travel places in search of perhaps what they even don't know.

“To lose balance sometimes for love is part of living a balanced life.” Elizabeth Gilbert- Eat, Pray, Love

What I talk about when I talk about Gender Equality

Few weeks back, I saw a video of Ema Watson delivering a speech[1] at United Nations. She was speaking about Gender Inequality as a part of her campaign for 'HeForShe'. What was striking about her speech was when she says that 'Gender issue is a men issue as well'. Yes it is a men issue too. Many times in our daily lives we hear men say things like 'don't be a girl/women or don't act like them'. I must admit I have a said it few times myself. By saying that, though sometimes unintentionally, we consider women to be weak and someone who is not at par with men.

The other incident that triggered me to write this article was when Times of India wrote an article[2] about Deepika Padukone with the photos of her boobs exposed and tried to prove that she is a hypocrite. The article was an in-effect of an interview where she said that 'based on the roles demand she can cover her body as well as keep her body uncovered, it's her choice what she does with her body'. In many countries across the globe, people have a problem when a women wears small clothes. However, in the same locality, when men walk around in shorts or banyan, people have no issues. So you know, Deepika is not a hypocrite, people who wants girls to go out on the road fully covered but who themselves keep tons of porn movies in the laptop are the real hypocrites.

Every day in our daily life we see gender inequality happening around us. For instance, I commute to office on local bus. Many times when we see around girls/women standing in front of our seats, we tend to offer our seats to them. I think the act of offering our seat to women itself is supporting gender inequality. Ofcouse it a good practice to offer our seat to old women or men or a pregnant women or maybe a women with a baby. However, to young women who is healthy enough to stand, it is an act of gender inequality. And the women who accept such offers make the case only worse.

This is just one such example. There may be many such cases you must be observing in your daily lives.

No doubt, some of us are trying hard to make this world same for all the gender. As you can see today, men and women are paid equally in corporate world. Women sports players are paid the same salary as their male counter part. You can also see many women holding the topmost positions of the organizations like HP, Yahoo, Pepsico, Facebook to name a few. Still, they are only very few. Major portion of the women across the globe are still living under the shadow of this inequality. And perhaps, as Ema Watson mentioned in her speech, some of these women might be holding the top positions because their parents didn't differentiate between boy child and gal child. Their teachers might have taught the same lessons to them in the same way as they might have taught to boy student.

Again, no doubt, women and  men are built differently. So physically both the sexes are different. There is a chance that physically most men might be a little stronger than the women. But that does not make them weak in any way. Not to forget what women has to undergo during pregnancy. I don't know if we men can ever undergo such pain.

We live in the world of Mary Kom, who fought against the odds to enter the men's world of boxing. Like Mary, there are many such women who has time and again proved that women are at par with men across different domains.

So then how do we tackle this issue of 'Gender Inequality'?. What tangible steps can we take? Ofcouse we can say 'Change the mentality of men'. But I am sure that won't come under tangible steps. By tangible step, I mean small-small steps that we can take in our daily lives. For instance, stop offering our seat in bus to healthy women, stop categorizing anything(sports, work etc) as manly or womanly etc and more importantly to parents let you girl child choose whatever they want to do just like we allow our boys to do that. That's it.

I would like to close this article with a very nice good quote I came across

"We've begun to raise daughters more like sons... but few have the courage to raise our sons more like our daughters"- Gloria Steinem

[1]http://sociology.about.com/od/Current-Events-in-Sociological-Context/fl/Full-Transcript-of-Emma-Watsons-Speech-on-Gender-Equality-at-the-UN.htm

[2]http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/entertainment/hindi/bollywood/news/Dear-Deepika-our-point-of-view-/articleshow/43084705.cms